Intimacy & Connection

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Intimacy & Connection 〰️

For those ready to feel more alive in their bodies, relationships and lives

Body-based workshops and experiences to reconnect with your authentic self.

Playing with Aliveness is a safe space to explore your edges in grounded, human, emotionally intelligent and trauma-empowered ways.

We curate environments where you can slow down and reconnect with your body’s signals to experience meaningful connection- with yourself, with others and with life itself. 

Blending somatics, breathwork, neo-tantric informed practices, ritual and intimacy skill-building, our work is designed to be both transformative and accessible.

This is for you if:

  • You want deeper, more authentic connection with yourself and others

  • You feel disconnected from your body, desire, partner or sense of aliveness

  • You’re curious about intimacy, tantra or embodiment

  • You value consent, emotional safety, and clear boundaries

  • You’re on a personal or spiritual growth path and want to go deeper

  • You want to explore connection and intimacy

The Experience

What We Offer:

  • Immersive embodiment experiences (including Exploring Eros workshops & Retreats)

  • Platonic intimacy spaces (The Snuggle Project)

  • Workshops and speaking engagements for festivals & conferences

  • Coaching (individuals & couples, poly- & ENM friendly)

  • Custom facilitated experiences (private events)  

  • Cultivated spaces designed to rewire and inspire

  • Couples massage and bodywork

  • Authenticity, vulnerability, professionalism

What’s Included:

  • Guided somatic practices

  • Clear consent frameworks and communication tools

  • Connection techniques for individuals, partners and groups

  • Breathwork and nervous system regulation modalities

  • Curated spaces for intentional relating 

  • Neo-tantra infused ritual elements

  • Open-mindedness, shame-busting, heart-centred facilitation

Real connection

We prioritise:

Self Honouring - aligning with what feels good 

Safety - trauma-aware facilitation and clear containers 

Integration - experiences you can actually bring into your real life

Choice - empowered self-expression

Play in all its various forms!

Who We Are

We’ve facilitated workshops and experiences across a range of environments, including festivals and community spaces.

Each offering is designed to meet people where they are- while gently expanding their capacity for connection and aliveness.

Our work spans:

  • Introductory neo-tantra and embodiment workshops

  • Couples retreats 

  • Breathwork journeys and altered-state experiences

  • Consent-based platonic affection spaces

  • Ritual and relational experiences

  • Custom facilitated parties and private events

Meet Your Guides

Jule Rochelle

Jule is a trauma-empowered Relationship Coach and Somatica®-trained Sexologist who specialises in helping people move from shame and disconnection into authenticity, pleasure and secure attachment, using their body's signals as a compass to navigate relational space.

Her work blends somatics, intimacy skill-building, energy work and emotional intelligence. She is known for creating spaces that feel safe, playful and deeply human- where vulnerability, playfulness and connection can come alive.

TR Appleby

TR is a ritual facilitator and Neo-Tantra Coach with almost a decade of experience in altered-state facilitation, breathwork and trauma-informed energetic practices. He holds over 300 hours of certification training in Tantra based practices. 

His approach combines grounded presence, emotional depth and nervous system awareness. He specialises in helping people, no matter their body or orientation, access expanded states safely while maintaining agency and integrity.

What People Are Saying

“While standing alone, I was approached by TR and offered a simple hug. At that moment, something shifted. It felt different from the male energy I had come to fear from my past- I felt safe, at ease and unexpectedly emotional, like I could finally let myself be held and I felt the urge to cry in his arms.”

- R.T.

“It was beautiful to watch you interact with one another with so much love and respect. You both created a safe environment which allowed me to stay present within my body, and to honour my yes and my no. I was able to push against my edge in one of the exercises because of the safety I felt”

- S.M.

“I was nervous at first, but Jule and TR made me feel so safe and welcomed. The level of consent and freedom to go at my own pace was incredible. I left with new realisations, deeper connection and new friends. Highly recommend!”

- E.K.

Join an Upcoming Experience

Step into a space where your authentic aliveness and playfulness can blossom naturally.